This post was inspired by people around me.
Tricky it is about how human mind complicates things further when you know your parents well enough that your mind can "foresee" the future of their shocking expressions and dramas playing in that little box of yours. Therefore, couples tend to wait ... 3 months .... 6 months ... You desperately want your family to know the special guy and gather all your courage to tell. But then again sometimes their unexpected actions will crush your courage in just a matter of few seconds ...
It really is a difficuly experience to go through especially when it comes to introducing someone whom you adore and of totally different cultural background. Sometimes the mind doubts so much that it started to add frustration towards the relationship unintentionally.
The weaker companion will somewhat think that it is too difficult to keep the relationship on going from hiding it from their family. And the other companion will have to put in double the effort to continuously give motivation and stregth to pull it through. Sometimes I wonder, what made them so strong to be able to motivate themself and another in such situations?
Love - is accepting someone and adore them unconditionally. Now, there is family love too no? They are suppose to accept whatever it is their children's decisions are. Or doing whatever which makes them happy.